In matters of human sexuality, the spectrum is vast and diverse, extending far beyond the well-known categories. These lesser-known sexualities offer a unique window into the intricacies of human attraction and identity. As society evolves, so does our understanding of these complex orientations. One's sexual orientation is a deeply personal and multifaceted aspect of their identity. To explore these lesser-known sexualities is to embrace the richness of human diversity, recognizing that love and attraction come in many forms. To quote the celebrated sexologist Alfred Kinsey, ‘The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform.’

Lithsexual

Lithsexuality is a unique orientation where an individual may experience romantic attraction but feel that it dissipates or loses intensity when it's reciprocated. This can lead to challenges in maintaining romantic connections. It emphasizes the fluid and complex nature of human attraction. It underscores the need for individuals to define and navigate their romantic feelings without conforming to societal expectations, aligning principles of personal agency and autonomy.

Abrosexual

Abrosexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by fluidity, where an individual's sexual attraction shifts and changes over time. People who identify as abrosexual may experience varying levels of attraction and find that their preferences fluctuate, making it difficult to pinpoint a fixed sexual orientation. 

Autosexual

Autosexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by an individual's primary or exclusive attraction to themselves. Autosexual individuals may experience a strong sense of sexual attraction or arousal when thinking about, viewing, or engaging in sexual activities with their own bodies. While this term is not widely recognized, it represents a unique facet of human sexuality. 

Gynesexual

Gynesexuality is a sexual orientation where individuals are primarily attracted to people who identify as female, regardless of their biological sex. This orientation is not solely based on physical characteristics but includes an attraction to the gender identity of femininity. 

Androsexual

Similar to gynesexuality, androsexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by primary or exclusive attraction to individuals who identify as male, regardless of their biological sex. This orientation is centered on gender identity, focusing on a deep attraction to the masculinity associated with men. 

Skoliosexual

Skoliosexuality is a sexual orientation where individuals are primarily attracted to people who identify as non-binary, genderqueer, or gender non-conforming. It is centered on the attraction to those whose gender identity exists outside the traditional binary concepts of male and female. 

Through the exploration of these lesser-known sexualities, we not only acknowledge the uniqueness of individual experiences but also break down the confines of traditional norms. It's a reminder that love and desire are as varied as the human experience, and even if we don’t know or understand someone’s sexual orientation, we must respect it at all costs.

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References

Big Think | Closing Therapy | Rainbow & Co | Queerty